Frequently Asked Questions:
Q - "So what exactly is a doula?"
A - A doula is a support person for pregnancy, birth and postpartum. We are not medical professionals, although we do serve people in medical atmospheres. We are your guides through one of life's most unpredictable and greatest adventures! We go by many names - comfort ninjas, baby whisperers, holders of intimate and vulnerable space, protectors of nuance, oxytocin facilitators, the list goes on. But you get the idea.
Q -"I have a midwife. Should I still have a doula?"
A - Your midwife is a highly trained, trusted medical provider. And although they are a compassionate professional, they are also very busy. If you have a midwife in a hospital setting, your midwife will not stay with you for the duration of your labor. However, your doula will! Your doula will be sure that your emotions surrounding your birth experience are validated, you are as physically comfortable as possible and that your questions are answered as they come up. We work with midwives and OBs alike to create both a dynamic and relaxing atmosphere where everybody works together to take care of YOU!
Q - "If I get an epidural or need a cesarean, will you leave me?"
A - In short: NO! There is no situation that could come up where we would leave our client in the birth space, UNLESS you directly express to us that you would like some time alone. Just because you may get an epidural or need a cesarean, does not mean that you are any less in need of support - emotionally, physically or educationally. We are with you *every* step of the way!
Q - "My partner is very supportive. Should I still have a doula?"
A - Having a supportive partner is so great! That makes such a huge difference in your birth experience. But they do not know birth like we do. And that's okay - because they know YOU better than we do! We are not there to replace your partner by any means. We are there to facilitate a space where you can bond, not only with your baby, but with your partner as well!
Q - "Do you attend unassisted homebirths?"
A - We support the right for every birthing person to have the birth experience that they want. However, unassisted home births put us at risk financially. Therefore we are unable to attend home births that a medical provider is not also attending due to liability purposes.
Q - "What happens if you're at another birth when I go into labor?"
A - We have a whole network of trusted doulas that we work with. That being said, although we can't anticipate when our clients will go into labor, we only take 2-3 clients per month to avoid due dates overlapping. In the off-chance, however, that we are at another birth when you need support, your secondary doula will be called into action! Don't worry - we say "secondary" but she will be by no means inferior. We establish who our backup doula is for every client as they come in and you will get a chance to meet her at least once during your pregnancy. We won't send you a stranger, nor will you get anybody we wouldn't trust at our own birth!
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